Priority one: take your time.
Most women will find that good cocksucking skills can be quite empowering. The ability to reduce a man to the muscular equivalent of tapioca pudding is quite a delight. If you can manage, undo the pants with your teeth. This is always a nice indicator that you know what you’re doing and that your man should relax and enjoy.
Try to move in phases: kissing, licking, very light nibbling and then sucking and keep the best part for last. Start with kissing the base and balls, using your lips to lightly grab. This light kiss/grabbing works really well on the underside of the shaft. Be sure to not overlook the underside of the ball sack at this point but pay attention to his responses; he may be too ticklish in that area. After completely covering the area in kisses, move on to licking and light nibbling. This is a good time to explore the areas below the ball sack – the taint and asshole. As you go further down, pay attention to his hips. If he lifts them up, it can be taken as a sign to be adventurous and stick your tongue wherever you feel like. If his thighs begin to close in, his hands pull your head away or he arches his back [tilting his hips down and away from you], be wary of further exploration or slow down your approach. A lot of men are surprised at how much a gentle ass licking turns them on. Be brave and go for it. You will both enjoy the level of arousal. If you intend on sticking any fingers in, test with your tongue first – you don’t want to freak him out, and make certain your nails are short and clean cut. You don’t want to scare him off. If you’re going to use your hands, start off dry, making gentle contact with the loose shaft skin. If this doesn’t seem to be working for him, give the whole thing a good lick and try it then. Many men don’t go in for a sloppy hand job. The taint is an often-neglected area. When sucking, licking or kissing the balls, use your chin to apply some pressure to the taint. If you can multi-task, this is a good opportunity for a small hand job.
Leaving the tip untouched until the last minute can be either very arousing for your man or very frustrating. Pay attention to him. By licking everywhere except the tip of the cock, chances are he’ll swoon when you finally take it in your mouth. If you are blessed with a low gag-reflex, take him in all at once the first time and slowly work it out. Always beware what your molars are doing to the tip. Molars can be sharp, you know. While you have his cock in your mouth, make use of one of your body’s strongest muscles: your tongue. Flick it about the tip, following the ridge of the cap. Pay some special attention to the underside of that ridge. When moving the cock in and out of your mouth it’s helpful to keep your tongue flat as this protects the shaft from your bottom teeth as well as keeps things lubed for your lips. Pressure against the tip and a gentle probing of the hole with your tongue is also a good thing to do.
Building up a strong suction around the tip can be over-stimulating in most men. Use it sparingly, but use it at least once or twice to encourage the blood flow. To alleviate stress on your neck, use the springs of the bed to move his cock in and out of your mouth. Using your hands and knees, bounce the bed beneath you. This, of course, will bounce him in and out of your mouth.
There are several ways to sense when he is about to come. Tension in the abdomen and inner thighs and the tightening of the ball sack are three really clear indicators. If you’re lucky, he’s the type that’ll verbally tell you. However, if you tease him long enough, he’ll stop giving you the verbal head’s up. A good, subtle way to monitor the tension in his abdomen is to use one hand to support the angle of the cock with your index finger and thumb, with your palm resting on his tummy. Also, periodically check the tension in his balls. Wadding the sheets up in his fists, retracting his toes into his kneecaps and arching his neck are other small ways your man may be communicating the timing of his orgasm. Taking note of these signs, draw him out at least twice before letting him come. It’s not a race so take your time. As you feel the orgasm building up, slow down your pull and lightly blow on his cock. Massage the balls a bit to relax them – kissing them is great at this point. If you do move your mouth away from his cock at this stage, be certain to keep a moving hand on it – you don’t want to have to start all over, or do you? Not all fellators enjoy the taste of semen. If this is you, try this: as he’s about to come, lean forward to where your forehead is almost touching his stomach. The cum will then shoot to the back of your throat. Drop your tongue as low to the bottom of your mouth as possible as this gets it out of the way. When you’re certain it’s all out, lean back and swallow fast. If there’s more on its way, lean forward again and repeat. You don’t have to lick it clean, but doing so is incredibly sexy. Otherwise, it is incredibly good form to get a warm washcloth to tidy things up with. He’ll find it relaxing, thoughtful and comforting and you won’t have to find yourself snuggling up to a sticky cock.
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